Notes and writing.

A plain place for long thoughts. Black ink on white paper.

how i navigate being stuck/overanalyzing

Your mind is stuck on something ↓ Ask yourself Is this new information, or the same worry on repeat? same worry, again Notice it. Say "not now." Return your attention to whatever is in front of you. ↓ Done. Move on. new…

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raising a child in asia's world city

There are many kinds of parents. I grew up with one who chose to learn from every mistake she made. Which sounds lovely until you understand the mechanism. The mechanism is that somebody had to be the mistake. Parents, a…

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How to "Run" an NGO in Hong Kong

I want to say upfront that I am writing this from inside the sector, not from outside it. I am not writing about a competitor. I am writing about a set of habits that I have watched become normal, including habits I have…

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Milk, the way I know it

Originally written for DEIJB Lab's SouthAsianHeritageMonth2026. Reproduced here for the record. Growing up in Hong Kong as a Punjabi kid, I had a funny relationship with milk. Outside my house, milk wasn't really milk th…

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Engage with ethnic minority grass-roots platforms

Originally published as an op-ed. Reproduced here for the record. The report "Official apps pose hurdles for Hong Kong's ethnic minority groups, study finds" (March 26) highlights findings that, for many of us, are not r…

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